Meet Our Intended Parents
Meet Jérôme & Romain
Location: Paris, France
We are Jérôme and Romain.
For years, we lived side by side in the vast city of Paris without knowing that the other existed. Life led us through different relationships, different paths, until one day a mutual friend, Soizic, brought us into the same room.
She was celebrating her 30th birthday and had told Jérôme, “My friend Romain won’t be there, and honestly, it’s for the best — it would create chaos.” She had no idea how right she was.
We met again at several events after that, and every time, the same spark appeared: laughter, ease, a natural complicity that felt both joyful and unsettling. But we remained wise — we were both in relationships at the time.
In 2022, everything shifted. Soizic went through a difficult breakup, and Jérôme welcomed her into his home. He wrote to Romain to let him know she wasn’t doing well, joking that they were “already halfway through the chocolate bars.” Within minutes, Romain was on his bike, heading over — officially to support Soizic, but secretly because the opportunity to see Jérôme was simply too perfect to miss.
That evening was unforgettable. Soizic needed comfort, but selfishly, what stayed with us were the quiet glances we kept stealing from each other.
A week later, we went to a concert together. That night, we shared our first kiss. And everything flowed naturally from there:
• a first weekend away (in Creuse) after just three weeks,
• moving in together after six months,
• buying a house a year later… and soon, dreams of building a family of our own.
At every milestone, we laughed at how fast things were moving. But slowing down, being “reasonable,” pretending we weren’t meant for each other — that would have been the only real mistake.
Becoming fathers is not a new dream for either of us. Individually, we had hoped for this since we were young adults. Together, we finally felt safe enough, loved enough, complete enough to say: “I want us to become three or four. I want us to be a family.”
Since 2023, we have explored every path possible. After long reflection, many discussions, and with deep respect, we turned toward Canada. We believe it is the most ethical, thoughtful, and human approach, one that reflects the values we want to bring into our future child’s life.
Like in all our projects, we put our full energy, joy, and gratitude into this journey. Our couple is built on laughter, shared adventures, and the certainty that together, we can face anything. We are deeply fulfilled as a couple, and it is this happiness, not a need or a void, that we hope to share with a child.
An intended child will not be here to “complete” us; rather, we feel that we will become the truest version of ourselves with our child in our lives. We want to raise a child who knows what love looks like in everyday moments: in the way we listen to each other, support each other, celebrate each other, and choose each other — every single day.
If our story touches you, if you feel a connection to our journey, we would be honored to meet you. A new chapter of our lives is about to begin, and we can only hope that you might be part of it.
Letter to Future Surrogate
Dear surrogate mum,
We would like to speak to you simply, from the heart. For a long time, we have dreamed of becoming fathers — of building a family rooted in love, curiosity, and kindness toward others. This project is the dream of a lifetime: to welcome a child, to guide them, to pass on a sense of respect, laughter, and trust.
Today, this dream is becoming possible because of you. There are no words strong enough to express the gratitude we feel toward you. The gesture you are making goes beyond generosity — it is a gift of life, an act of trust that moves us deeply. You are making it possible for our family to be born, and that will forever be part of our shared story.
We want you to know how deeply we value your role. We wish to involve you in this journey as much as you want to be, never intruding, never assuming — always with respect, care, and appreciation for the choice you are making. This relationship is not just a formal arrangement; it is a meeting between human beings, built on honest conversation and mutual trust.
Although oceans and miles may separate us, distance will never prevent us from being present with you. We will be there, supporting you with attention and respect, ready to listen and to accompany you in every way we can. We truly look forward to meeting you, to discovering the person you are, beyond this extraordinary gesture of generosity.
We plan to visit you during the pregnancy, to spend time together in person, to share moments of joy and calm, and to build a genuine connection. We would also be delighted to keep in touch after the birth, if that feels right to you — because the story we are writing together will never really end when the baby arrives.
We even hope to spend a few weeks in Canada, to discover your world, your culture, your everyday life, the places and people that make you who you are. It would mean a lot to us to understand a bit of your universe, to learn from you, and to let this shared journey enrich us all.
Our deepest wish is that this collaboration becomes more than a medical or administrative journey, that it grows into a human adventure founded on mutual recognition, gentleness, and trust. We hope that one day, when this child knows about you, they will understand that their arrival in the world began with a pure act of generosity, and with the meeting of beautiful souls connected across distance and love.
Very sincerely,
Jérôme & Romain
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