Meet Lucas & Derek

Location: Hamilton, ON

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—LETTER TO SURRO—-

We’re Derek (35) and Luke (31), and we’re so grateful that you’ve taken a moment to learn about us! We live together in a beautifully renovated home in Hamilton, Ontario a place that sits at and equal distance of both of our families. Our home is one filled with warmth, laughter, and connection, and it means everything to us that it may one day become the place where we raise our child. Choosing to pursue surrogacy has come from a deeply thoughtful and heartfelt place. Becoming parents is something we have hoped for and planned for with intention, and we approach this journey with the greatest respect for what you are considering. We know this is not a small decision but rather an immensely generous and meaningful one. We would love to take this opportunity to share more about who we are, what led us to one another, and why we believe we will be loving, devoted parents. When I first met Derek nine years ago on our first date, the moment I got into his car, it felt as if time stood still. I had the overwhelming sensation that I had known him my entire life, like our souls had somehow found each other again. There’s no other way to describe it. On our second date, as we went for a drive together, Derek spoke about his career and I just knew he wouldn’t stay an engineer forever. I could picture him moving into finance before he ever said it himself; a change he made about a year later after thoughtful reflection. From the beginning, there was an immediate, unexplainable knowing. I could see our future clearly without having to think about it. I was quietly, completely, and irrevocably locked in. What made me fall in love, though, was twofold. While commuting to graduate school one day, the classmate I drove with had her tire burst on a rural road and we were stranded. Derek immediately drove all the way out to us and changed her tire. But it wasn’t the rescue that made me fall in love, it was what came after. From that moment on, Derek drove me to school every morning, waiting outside my apartment with a homemade lunch. It was the simplest thing though; the cut carrots he packed in that bag, that did it for me. Something about that quiet care, and thoughtfulness, still brings tears to my eyes to this day. As a middle child and often the “responsible one,” I grew up carrying a lot without realizing it. But when I met Derek, I finally felt like I could let my guard down and that I didn’t always have to be the strong one. Derek loves through stability. His love language is responsibility, protection, and care. He remembers everything, anticipates needs before they’re voiced, and keeps our world running quietly and steadily. More than anything, his depth of love shows through his family especially his two cousins, who live with early-onset Parkinsonism-intellectual disability syndrome. Derek has cared for them since he was a child himself. Watching him on his hands and knees, gently spoon-feeding his cousin through the progression of illness, is one of the most profound demonstrations of love I’ve ever witnessed. There is a part of me that remains in constant awe of how he loves. I fell in love with Luke in the most natural, effortless way. His nurturing, gentle nature drew me in from the beginning, and he made me feel safe and seen in a way I had never known before. He brings lightness into my life through his humour and warmth, balancing my quieter personality with joy and energy. Luke encourages me to open up without ever pushing, simply inviting me into his world with patience and kindness. Over time, I realized that everything around me felt brighter when he was there. That’s when I knew he wasn’t just someone I loved, he was the person I wanted to build my life with. Derek has always spoken about his love for family and children, not casually, but as something deeply rooted in who he is. I believed him from the beginning and it’s a value I strongly share as well, but it wasn’t until life tested us that I truly saw it. When my sister-in-law fell seriously ill, Derek stepped in without hesitation and took responsibility for caring for my infant niece as though she were his own. He bought new car seats for everyone. He showed up for early mornings, late nights, and everything in between. He helped create a bedroom for her in the home we renovated together, carefully making it a place where she would feel safe, loved, and at home. He took her to swimming lessons; he brought her to the park; he carried her into sleep; he celebrated her milestones. And when my mother became ill with cancer, he cared for her too! Always gently, always quietly, never asking for anything in return. Derek does not perform love. He shows it through constancy, through presence, and through unwavering care. He will be a father who protects his child’s sense of security, remembers the smallest details, and builds a home where love is steady and dependable. Our future child will grow up knowing what it means to feel safe not because it’s said, but because it is lived. Luke will be an incredible parent because love is at the center of everything he does. He has cared devotedly for his mother and continues to show boundless gentleness and responsibility with his niece. Being nurturing comes naturally to him. Children gravitate toward his warmth and energy and adults do too. He brings laughter, empathy, and emotional steadiness into every space. He is endlessly thoughtful, deeply patient, and effortlessly affectionate. Luke is emotionally grounded and financially responsible, and he is ready to create a home filled with safety, warmth, and imagination. Our future child will be raised by someone who believes deeply in emotional honesty, compassion, and joy; and who delights in connection and tenderness every single day. Together, we have built a relationship rooted in trust, humour, support, and devotion. We genuinely love one another. We take care of each other. We grow together through loss and through joy. Our home is calm, accepting, and full of warmth. Becoming parents is not something we are stepping into lightly. Rather, it is something we have hoped for, prepared for, and dreamed about for years. If you choose to walk this journey with us, please know we will honour you always with empathy, respect, and gratitude.

From the bottom of our hearts – Thank you.

With love and appreciation,

Luke & Derek

—BIO—

Meet Luke & Derek! 🏡🤍

Luke (31) and Derek (35) are a loving couple who call Hamilton, Ontario home, where they’ve built a beautifully renovated space right at the heart of both of their families. After nine years together, their relationship is rooted in deep care, laughter, and the quiet comfort of truly knowing one another. Luke brings warmth, humour, and thoughtfulness into everything he does, while Derek offers steadiness, structure, and unwavering loyalty. Together, they balance one another effortlessly, creating a home that feels safe, joyful, and full of love. Family is central to their lives. Whether it’s spending time with relatives, hosting meaningful gatherings, or simply enjoying everyday routines at home, Luke and Derek are surrounded by people who love them and are ready to welcome a new little one with open arms Their days are a blend of cozy evenings, shared meals, small adventures, and moments of laughter – the simple rhythms that make a home feel alive. Most of all, Luke and Derek are excited about becoming parents. They dream of a home filled with storybooks, bedtime routines, playtime, traditions, and unconditional love. Their greatest hope is to raise a child who feels safe, supported, celebrated, and deeply cherished every day.

📌 What Makes Luke & Derek Special:
🏠 A warm, family-centered home in Hamilton, Ontario
💛 A relationship built on love, trust, and genuine partnership
🧸 Devoted caregivers to Luke’s niece Lyra
👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Surrounded by close-knit extended family ready to welcome a child
✈️ Love travelling together — especially to the East Coast
🎬 Luke loves classic films & design
📺 Derek is a reality-TV aficionado

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